What's The Deal?

You know what I have always wondered? I have always wonder why there has to be that little bit of conflict between siblings. You know like with a sister and a sister or a brother and a sister and so on. I mean when it's all over and done with and you go your separate ways you always end up not ever seeing each other again. I'm worried that my relationship with my older sister is becoming just that. I don't want it to but it just is. I have tried to fix the relationship with her but it seems like it's just me doing the fixin', and it just doesn't work that way it takes two to fix a relationship between two sisters. I know what the Bible says about loving one another cause I grew up hearing that a lot. But sometimes it's just hard when that one person is always treating you so badly and always makes you feel like your little. It is stated in 1 Timothy chapter 4 verse 12:"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in purity and in faith." Yeah that's easy to say but sometimes it's just hard. I really just don't know what to do anymore, I don't know if I should give up or to just keep on trying. It seems like the more I try the worse it gets. So I'm not sure, maybe it's just better off being that way. My older sister she calls me bad names and such, and then maybe an hour or so later she's wanting me to do something for her and I'm sorry it just doesn't work that way. I guess all I can do now is pray.